From Choice to Overflow — The Journey of Praying in Tongues
- Eric Mayfield
- Oct 11, 2025
- 3 min read
“You begin to pray by choice, but as you yield, the Spirit begins to pray through you. That’s the moment when prayer moves from your lips to His.”
— Benny Hinn, Good Morning, Holy Spirit (1990)
There is a mystery in prayer few truly explore — that we can choose to pray in tongues whenever we want, yet that choice can become a gateway into something far deeper: an intensified flow of the Holy Spirit.
It’s what I believe Paul experienced when he said,
“I thank my God that I speak in tongues more than you all.” — 1 Corinthians 14:18
Paul didn’t wait for a moment to fall upon him — he chose to step into it. But somewhere in that decision, the Spirit took over. That’s the same shift I’ve come to recognize: moving from praying with the Spirit to praying in the Spirit.
1. You Can Choose to Pray — “With the Spirit”
Every prayer begins with your will. You open your mouth, lift your heart, and engage Heaven.
Even praying in tongues begins as a supernatural act of faith — not from intellect, but from obedience. You yield your tongue to the Holy Spirit, trusting Him to give utterance.
This is what it means to pray with the Spirit — to partner with Him intentionally. Benny Hinn wrote that the Holy Spirit is “a real Person who desires your fellowship, your conversation, your love.” (Good Morning, Holy Spirit, ch. 3)
In this stage, the miracle is already happening. You are choosing to step into the supernatural — choosing to let the Spirit express Himself through you.
But there’s more.
2. When Yielding Deepens — “In the Spirit”
If you stay with it — if you linger, refusing to rush the moment — something begins to change.
You cross a threshold. Your words are still unknown, still divine, but the flow changes. It becomes deeper, weightier, fuller. The atmosphere shifts, and suddenly it feels less like you’re speaking, and more like Heaven is breathing through you.
This is where the prayer moves from with the Spirit to in the Spirit.
Your will opened the door — His power fills the room.
As Benny Hinn teaches, when you pray in the Spirit, “you are no longer praying with your mind — your spirit is praying.” (Good Morning, Holy Spirit, ch. 5)
That’s the moment of full surrender — when your cooperation becomes communion, and communion becomes possession.
3. Why This Matters
Yes, you can wait until you “feel led” to pray in the Spirit — until you sense that deep flow. But if you do, you’ll miss countless moments when the Spirit was ready to move the moment you opened your mouth.
That truth burdens me — not in anger, but in longing.
Because so many believers could be encountering that “in the Spirit” depth daily if they simply began.
Every time we choose to pray in tongues, we create the opportunity for Heaven to invade the natural. Every time we yield our voice, the Spirit has a chance to take it further.
We miss those moments when we wait instead of start.
And that saddens me — not because anyone is wrong, but because there’s so much more waiting on the other side of simple obedience.
4. Paul’s Secret — Consistency and Flow
Paul said, “I thank my God that I speak in tongues more than you all.” (1 Corinthians 14:18)
He wasn’t boasting — he was revealing a rhythm.
He prayed in tongues often because he understood the power of choosing to start. He didn’t wait for the feeling — he stepped into the flow until the Spirit carried him.
That’s how we grow into constant fellowship. The more we pray with the Spirit, the quicker we slip into the Spirit.
The more often we yield, the easier it is to live in that atmosphere of divine communion.
5. A Call to Step Deeper
The Spirit is not far from you.
You can choose, right now, to pray in tongues — and that choice is holy. It’s the invitation He’s been waiting for.
Start with Him. Keep going until you’re in Him.
Let the partnership turn into overflow, the obedience turn into ecstasy, the words turn into worship.
That’s how Paul prayed more than them all. Not because he was more spiritual — but because he didn’t wait.
He prayed with the Spirit often, until every moment became an invitation for the Spirit to pray through him.
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Source:
Hinn, Benny. Good Morning, Holy Spirit. Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1990.
(Referenced chapters 3–6, where Hinn describes fellowship with the Holy Spirit, the nature of prayer in tongues, and the dynamic of the Spirit praying through us.)



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